20 July 2006

Female..

Is today’s gals too masculine (man-ly)? I wonder why. Rather then wearing skirts and earrings, they tend to wear casually no different from guys. Favorite pass-time is playing online game rather then shopping and reading novel. Gals no more carrying those cute stuff, di-ling-da-lang things (you know..); women no more cook and taking care family. By the time I saying this, it’s already more then trend/phenomena. It’s already a fact.

I watched I’m not stupid 2 again. I’m not blaming woman for having a career outside, but don’t you think that it’s better to have a person managing family matters? And please, leaving the child to a maid is worst thing you can do, as most of the maid is younger then you and me. Yup, if you ask, I will still insist that family and children is a women’s biggest career can have. If they think otherwise, they shouldn’t have a family at the first place.

It’s nothing serious actually, just want to say my heart out. Today’s gals make me lost appetite.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

i think u tat is urs opinion but most of the girl still like cute thing, shopping and aso wear skirt. if dun believe, juz ask urs friends around u.. i believe tat most of the gals like tis kind of thing..

lost appetite??? wat?then u juz find the gals tat juz know how to cook and stay at home only and do nothing~~

eddie said...

i wonder if you will stop by again.

well, i agree that not all gals act like this, and if i meet them, they would really make my day. Chances are i always meet girl that are "dont care dont care" one.. u know..

Guess what, you have just changed me into an extreamist with few lines. Nah.. i din mean that. I think women that are willing to take care of family should be given credit, rather than label them as "out-dated" house-wife or such. Apart for house-chores and stuff, well, nobody stoping them to else anything else.

oh god, i sounds like making a wishlist for my future wife. No no.. don't mistaken.

Anonymous said...

I dont think girls who dont wear skirts are manly.Its just a personal preference,thats all.Sometimes its so much more comfortable wearing pants than skirts especially with camera phones,snatch thieves and perverts around.Besides, we dress to feel comfortable,not to let guys oogle at usla.Besides there are tonnes of those spaggetti-straped-super-short-shorts girls around.Not enough meh? We'll let them take the creditla.

As for the career woman thingie,no matter what any woman does, managing personal matters is still a female thing.Who do you think picks and chooses the maid from the agency? the wife of course.It shows they still think about the families wellbeing first and foremost.

We modern woman like a balance in life.We want to reach our goals and do wat is needed as a wife too.So its only fair that u give and take lor.Its not easy jugling housework and working .I salute all mothers out there who work and come back to cook for their families.They are like unpaid servants u know?

As for those man who expect their wives(reluctantly) to sit at home and cook for them, clean up after them,take care of their children only....u might as well marry a maid.At least you no need pay salary.

forgive me for making such a long comment.Just giving my 2 cents.

eddie said...

thanks for your comment lilian, your positive comment is always welcomed here. When i started few line i thought you gonna beat into a bulb.. ^^

well said. i agree to every single words you said.

My wrong to say gals who didnt wear skirts and stuff is masculine. The pace of our life has become faster, and the womens have to adapt into this kind of situation.

Alright the other topic. You see, besides of the children, our parents will grow old too. My point is it is BETTER to have someone to take care the family, preferably womens not maid of course.

well, maybe i'm asking too much. I should let "her" decide.

Anonymous said...

Then u begin like boy ah??:/

eddie said...

aww.. ally.. actually you are quite a nice gal. I fond of you also.

next time la okay?